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The one downside to homeschooling is that when you’re up against challenging circumstances, you still need to pull things together and teach your children.

Last year, when our beloved friend and colleague, David Finkelman died, I couldn’t send my daughter to school and mourn while she was there; I had to continue to teach her in the midst of my grief. I’m so thankful we already finished school when my grandma died last year. I don’t know how I would have managed.

However these losses made me consider the strategies I can use when homeschooling through grief.

Take some time off

If taking some time off is an option, then do it. However, sometimes there may be reporting/monitoring processes and or timelines which can’t be postponed. Hopefully the following tips will help if you’re ever in such a situation.

Make a lesson of it

Real life experiences have great meaning. Perhaps take this opportunity to teach your children about death and grief.

Lighten the load

If there’s any time to go light on the curriculum, now is the time. Do the bare minimum to keep your children on track with their learning.

Pull out the educational videos

Now is the time to watch all those Bill Nye videos, educational YouTube channels, and documentaries.

Audio books

This is also the time to pull out your audio books. While your children are listening to a recorded book, you can steal a few moments for yourself.

Take frequent breaks

Be gentle on yourself and your children. Make sure to take lots of breaks. Let your children know you need a break, set them up with an activity or give them a break too. Make sure to cry when you need to cry… it’s such an important part of the healing process.

Get out of the house

Take the learning outside. Nature is such a healing force. Breathe in the fresh air, soak up the sunshine, and move your body. It’s good for you and your children.

Ask for help

Call on a fellow homeschooling friend or a family member. Perhaps they can supervise your children while you take a break.

Proactive strategies

There are also some things that we can do in advance to lessen the challenge of homeschooling through grief.

Teach self-discipline

If your children can handle it, teach them self-discipline at a young age. When they have self-discipline, they work through their tasks with much more ease. Sanz over at From the Mrs. shared this lovely strategy a couple of years ago and I often use it with my daughter.

Teach self-discipline at a young age. Place tasks on clothespins. As the child completes the task, they place it in the can. http://thedeliberatemom.com

We have all of her “work” written on clothespins. At the beginning of the day, I put the clothespins on the side of a bucket. As she completes a clothespin task, the pin is placed in the bucket. Once all of the clothespins are in the bucket, she’s done for the day.

Build in buffer times for your homeschool schedule

As I mentioned last week, we’re switching to year-round homeschooling. One of the reasons for this is that we’ll have more flexibility to take time off when we need it. Hence, if we need time off for mourning, we can take it off without the pressure of feeling like we’re falling behind on our learning.

Do you have any suggestions on how to cope while homeschooling through grief?

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Jennifer Bly
Jennifer Bly
Author of My Kitchen, My Classroom: An Introduction to Homeschool, creator of The Deliberate Mom, Deliberate Homeschooling and regular contributor to The Huffington Post. Jennifer writes about parenting, her faith, and life with her husband and two girls. Jennifer has a Bachelor of Applied Human Service Administration Degree with a specialization in Early Learning in Child Care.
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